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There was a time that my response would have not have been
surprise. Daddy singing was not anything out of the ordinary, it happened every
day, and it could happen at any time during the day. Making music was merely
second nature for Daddy. He did not have to think about it, it just happened.
Daddy also whistled another amazing talent he had and shared
on many occasions. The sound of his whistle was a musical sound that cannot be
duplicated by any musical device. Daddy kept perfect time and stayed on key
every time. There have been so many times that Daddy whistled and I sang, or I
played the piano and he whistled, our music just happened spontaneously. That
is often the best kind of music, the unplanned and unpracticed melodies that
flow easily.
When I was a child, I believed that the song Bushel and a Peck
was something that he had made up just for me. Daddy always sang that song to
me, sometimes bouncing me on his knee as he sang. Imagine my surprise when I
discovered differently!
Daddy’s voice is amazing, if you have heard him sing, then
you know that this is true. Daddy shared his gift every Sunday morning in the
church choir. During the evening services, I sat near Daddy, and listened to
the sound of his voice, I did not sing. The sound of his voice was so amazingly
awesome, that I just had to be able to hear it.
Last week was my husband’s birthday. We took a birthday cake
to Mama and Daddy’s house. The cake was placed in front of my husband and Daddy was
asked if he would like to sing Happy Birthday with me. He did, Daddy sang Happy
Birthday! He carried the tune perfectly, the words may have been imperfect by a
different standard, but it was perfection to our ears! Kevin recognized how
valuable this precious gift was. The
cruel and hideous Alzheimer’s beast is stealing everything that it can, but at
that moment, Daddy sang. The music will come to an end; this painful knowledge
is with us each day. For now, I am able to sit next to him, slip my hand in
his, Daddy smiles and sometimes we sing.